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TOP・UPDATES・FOUR PILLARS・CINEMA/TV・GAMES・MANGA/ANIME・MUSIC・WRITINGS・FAQ・LINKS
I am lonely and am looking for a partner of the opposite sex. What is the chance that a girl of the type I mention here will stumble across this site, find this page, and be interested enough to reach out to me? Certainly it is astronomically small. But it still seems like a greater chance than I have using any of the major dating apps, and is certainly far less degrading to partake in.
You know the basics about me from my BIO and the rest of this site. But here's some more information about what I'm looking for in a relationship:
＊I would like to be in a monogamous, closed relationship. Ideally, I would also like to live together and get married, though that would probably not be for some time. As for whether to have kids or not, I am undecided and am open to my potential partner's needs and desires.
＊If we meet each other online like this, it will pretty much have to be a long-distance relationship at first. This is not ideal and I'd like to be together physically. But it has to start in some way or another. Everyone has internet friends who they are closer to than IRL acquaintances, so it's not inconceivable that the same could apply for romantic relationships. Of course I don't like to reveal my exact location on the internet, so I can't be very specific about how far away I am from you until we know each other much better.
＊I live somewhere in the US that almost never gets snow in the winter. I want to move somewhere with real, frigid, cold winters in the near future. Where would that be? New England? The Great Lakes? Canada? Alaska? Scandinavia? The Baltic states? Hokkaidou? All would be improvements in my book. If you live in a place like this or also dream of doing so, we will be compatible.
＊When it comes to the five "love languages," I rank them like this in terms of importance: Quality Time > Physical Touch > Words of Affirmation > Acts of Service > Receiving Gifts. The first three I find quite important (hope you like hugs and kisses :3), but the last two are less important to me than to the average person, I think. Not that I don't appreciate them. But my partner doing too many Acts of Service can make me feel overly indebted. And I don't support making love too tied to physical objects, so Receiving Gifts doesn't mean as much to me. Of course I appreciate a well-selected or well-made gift, but I value intimate companionship and loving words much more.
＊Here's what an ideal day off would look like if we were living together: We both wake up in a leisurely fashion. After a simple breakfast, we do something outside. Maybe it's an art exhibit at a museum or maybe it's a hike in a nearby forest. After that, we have lunch and enjoy some stimulating conversation. In the mid to late afternoon, we return to the house and settle in. Once we make sure we have our chores and obligations done for the upcoming day, we take time to relax together. Maybe we watch a movie or an anime or play a game together (because we should hopefully have at least a few hobbies that overlap). Eventually we both just kind of relax in the same room together, separately engaged in our own pursuits (drawing, gaming, etc.) but enjoying being in the same space and keeping each other company. We might be in different rooms if we feel like we need the space. Eventually we settle into bed together and cuddle :3. Something like that.
Of course, your ideal partner isn't someone you find, but someone you create via time together and mutual intimacy. So I'm not expecting some girl who is completely identical to what I put forward as an "ideal." But this would be the kind of girl I would be most attracted to. If you match even a few of these, we could very well be soulmates:
NON-NEGOTIABLES:
＊You are a biological female. Sorry, no trannies or femboyz plz.
＊You are somewhere in the range of 18-35 years old.
＊You have at least some of the same hobbies or interests as me (if you're reading this site you probably do). Of course this would ideally be a two-way street. I would like to learn more about your passions and interests as well.
NOT STRICTLY NECESSARY, BUT APPRECIATED:
＊You are of East Asian background (Japanese, Korean, Chinese). After that would be girls from Central Asia (Mongolia, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, etc.) and Native Americans who look most Asian (like Inuits). Then everyone else. But it really depends.
＊The above is more of a visual appeal than anything though. You don't need to conform to the stereotypical image of a deferential, submissive geisha type. In fact, I tend to have trouble with girls who are too reserved and bad at speaking their minds. I like girls who are talkative and even a bit pushy, as long as they are overall still kind and compassionate.
＊You have straight, long hair. I prefer natural colors no matter what they are, but my favorite color is black. I don't like streaks or gradients of different colors in hair. I do like bob cuts as well.
＊You don't have tattoos or piercings. Small and "traditional" piercings like earrings I can accept even if they are not ideal, but things like septum rings are awful to me. I find tattoos to be the worst. The only exception I can think of would be something like the traditional tattoos of someone who is an Inuit or Maori or something like that. At least there's a cultural tradition there I can have some degree of respect for.
＊I like big boobs (and I cannot lie).
＊I think glasses are cute! It's fine if you don't wear them, but if you do, you never ever need to put contacts in for me.
＊I don't care if you don't wear makeup. In fact, I prefer it.
＊I don't care if you have crooked, weird teeth. In fact, I think it's cute (Japanese influence strong).
＊I don't care if you have acne. In fact, I find it kind of endearing.
＊I don't care about your height. You can be tiny, huge, or just average. I like them all.
＊I don't care if you have zero fashion sense. Just have basic hygiene and you can wear anything you want around me.
＊I don't care if you're a virgin or not, as long as you haven't had sex with so many people that it means we probably have very different lifestyles and values.
＊I don't care if you're yaoi/BL crazed (as long as you can appreciate cute girls as well and let me be equally degenerate).
＊I don't care if you're a bit pudgy or plump. BBW level but not SSBBW level, let's say.
＊Email me at pantsuprophet@proton.me
＊Reach out on XMPP at amlux@xmpp.earth
＊Add me on Discord at Amlux#6988
Feel free to talk to me to see if we get along well.
I know. But dating apps are gay and at least this doesn't cost me money.